Monday, August 29, 2022

Family Home Evening for Proverbs 1-4; 15-16; 22; 31; Ecclesiastes 1-3;11-12

 Read Proverbs 3:5-7

5 ​​​​​​Trust​ in the ​​Lord​​ with all thine ​​​heart​; and lean not unto thine ​​​own​ ​​​understanding​.

​​​6 ​In all thy ways ​​​acknowledge​ him, and he shall ​​​direct​ thy ​​​paths​.

​​​7 Be not ​​​wise​ in thine own eyes: ​​​fear​ the ​​Lord​​, and depart from evil.


Discussion

Explain that these scripture tell us not to “lean unto [our] own understanding.” This means that when Heavenly Father asks us to do something, we should listen to Him and not think that we are smarter than Him. 


Activity

Get some unstable things to lean on, such as a piece of paper, a broom, etc. Explain to your children that we don’t often know everything or see situations the same way that God does. When we don’t trust God and do what He asks us to do, it can be as helpful as trying to put our hand on a piece of paper, broom, etc. to hold us up.


When we trust in the Lord, it can be like relying on a wall to hold us up. A wall is strong and steady, just like the Lord.


Discuss

These scriptures also talk about acknowledging Him in all our ways. What does this mean? This means that when Heavenly Father prompts us with thoughts or feelings of what we should do, we should always be ready to listen to him and obey these spiritual promptings. It is also important that when we receive these promptings and follow what they say, we remember to thank Him for guiding us and recognize His hand in our lives.


How can we show that we trust in the Lord with all our hearts?

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Monday, August 22, 2022

Family Home Evening for Psalms 102-103; 110; 116-119; 127-128; 135-139; 146-150

 Read or Summarize Psalm 127-128

127

1 Except the Lord build the house, they labour in vain that build it: except the Lord keep the city, the watchman waketh but in vain.

2 It is vain for you to rise up early, to sit up late, to eat the bread of sorrows: for so he giveth his beloved sleep.

3 Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.

4 As arrows are in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.

5 Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.

128

1 Blessed is every one that feareth the Lord; that walketh in his ways.

2 For thou shalt eat the labour of thine hands: happy shalt thou be, and it shall be well with thee.

3 Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table.

4 Behold, that thus shall the man be blessed that feareth the Lord.

5 The Lord shall bless thee out of Zion: and thou shalt see the good of Jerusalem all the days of thy life.

6 Yea, thou shalt see thy children’s children, and peace upon Israel.


Discuss

What does it mean for the Lord to help us “build [our] house”? How can we better involve Him in our efforts to create a righteous home? If your home is not dedicated, consider dedicating your home. See how to dedicate your home here https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/manual/general-handbook/18-priesthood-ordinances-and-blessings?lang=eng  


Activity

You will need a picture of a home (cut into puzzle pieces), building blocks, or something to build a house with. As you discuss what you can do to build a righteous home unto the Lord, add a block or puzzle piece to your home, and literally, build a house into the Lord. For more ideas of things you can do, search the Psalm above.


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Monday, August 15, 2022

Family Home Evening for Psalms 49-51; 61-66; 69-72; 77-78; 85-86

 Read Psalms 78:5-7

5 For he established a testimony in Jacob, and appointed a law in Israel, which he commanded our fathers, that they should make them known to their children:

6 That the generation to come might know them, even the children which should be born; who should arise and declare them to their children:

7 That they might set their hope in God, and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments:


Discuss

Think about your children, and the ages and stages of their growth and development, both physically and spiritually. What does Heavenly Father want you to teach your children? What things give you hope in God? What things give your children hope in God?


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Monday, August 8, 2022

Family Home Evening for Psalms 1 2; 8; 19-33; 40; 46

 Read Psalms 24:3-5

3 Who shall ascend into the hill of the Lord? or who shall stand in his holy place?

4 He that hath clean hands, and a pure heart; who hath not lifted up his soul unto vanity, nor sworn deceitfully.

5 He shall receive the blessing from the Lord, and righteousness from the God of his salvation.

Discuss

What might hands represent in this psalm? 

  • Hands represent our actions. It’s what we do.

What could the heart symbolize? 

  • Hearts represent our feelings and our desires

Activity

You will need washable paint, bowl of water or sink, and a towel.

Have one of your child open their hands, above the bowl. Have other family members think of some actions that make their “lives dirty.” This could be things like lying, hurting your siblings, disobeying your parents, doing something that hurts another person, saying bad words, etc. With each suggestion, put a drop of paint on your child’s hands (different colors would be great). After several suggestions, have your child rub their hands together with this “sinful soap.” Show your family these hands, and ask them if these are the clean hands that the scriptures talk about. Now tell them that through the Atonement of Jesus Christ, these hands can become clean again, if we repent. (Help your child rinse their hands in the bowl of water or sink.)

Discuss

What can we do to spiritually cleanse our hands?

Activity 

Cut a heart out of red construction paper, and one of the same size out of black construction paper. Cut the black paper into a few pieces. Have your children think about feelings or desires that could “un-purify” our hearts. This could include things such as holding a grudge, thinking you are better than someone else, not thinking about how others feel, thinking that you are always right, wanting to do things that are not good, being jealous, wanting what other people have, and not listening to the promptings of the Holy Ghost. With each suggestion put a piece of the black heart over the red heart. At the end, ask your children if this heart is pure anymore. 

Discuss

What can we do to spiritually cleanse our heart? (Remove pieces of black paper with each suggestion.)


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Family Home Evening for Job

 Read Job 23:8-11

8 ​Behold, I go forward, but he ​is​ not ​there;​ and backward, but I cannot perceive him:

​​​9 ​On the left hand, where he doth work, but I cannot behold ​him:​ he hideth himself on the right hand, that I cannot see ​him:​

​​​10 ​But he ​​​knoweth​ the way that I take: ​when​ he hath ​​​tried​ me, I shall come forth as gold.

​​​11 ​My foot hath held his steps, his way have I kept, and not declined.


Discuss

Sometimes, we feel like we are all alone in our trials. We may feel like we don’t have any friends, that no one understands how we feel, and like no matter what we do, things don’t get any easier. Job lost his family, his house, his money and everything he had. Instead of hating God and not believing in Heavenly Father and Jesus. He treated his trials as a learning experience and knew that in the end, he would be blessed for staying loyal to Heavenly Father and Jesus.


What does “I shall come forth as gold mean?”


Read the process of refining gold

  1. Insert the gold scraps and the flux into the crucible

  2. Put the crucible into the fire.

  3. Stoke the fire until the heat reaches 1947.52 degrees Fahrenheit, which is the melting point of gold. The gold in the crucible will start to melt.

  4. Remove the crucible from the fire when all of the gold is molten.

  5. Pour the molten gold into the mold and let it cool.

  6. Separate the base metals (copper, silver, iron, tin, lead, mercury, antimony) from the gold. They will float to the top of the mold.

  7. Insert the gold into a retort with diluted nitric acid.

  8. Pour off the nitric acid; pure gold remains.


Discuss 

Discuss how these steps can be applied to trails in our lives. Do you know someone who has gone through extremely difficult trials? Maybe you have. Discuss how faith in God and following His commandments have helped this person/you endure their/your trial(s).


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Family Home Evening for Esther

 Read or Summarize Esther 1-10

Here is our summary:

King   was the King of Persia and owned a lot of provinces or cities throughout the land. One day, he was holding a feast for all of the princes and noble people of Persia, Media, and other surrounding provinces.


On the third day of the feast, the king called to his wife, Queen Vashti. The queen was very beautiful, and he wanted to show her off to all of his guests so that they could see how beautiful his wife was. 


Queen Vashti did not want to come. In fact, she refused to come.


The princes and noblemen said that if other queens and princesses heard what the queen did, then they too would rebel. So they told the king to take away her crown so that she would no longer be queen.


The king’s servants didn’t want the king to be without a queen, so they gathered up all of the beautiful girls in the land, who were not married. 


Among these women was a beautiful woman, named Esther. Esther had been raised by her cousin, Mordecai, after both of her parents died.


When the servants saw Esther, they said that the king would love to marry Esther, and they wanted her to be the next queen. 


As soon as the king saw her, he loved her above all the other women. So, he married her, and Esther became the next queen.


One day, Haman, one of the king’s most trusted officials, was walking through the city. The Persians were required to bow to Haman as he passed by, but the Jews were not required to obey the laws of the king. Mordecai was one of the people that Haman passed by.


He told Mordecai to bow to him. Mordecai reminded him that he was not required to follow that law, and he told him that the only person that he would bow to is God.


This made Haman very angry, he sent out a decree that all Jews were to be killed, on a specific day.


Mordecai went to Esther and asked her to talk to the king and save her people. 


Esther was scared, because usually the king would kill people who went to see him, without an invitation. Esther told Mordecai, Esther 4:16 “Go, gather together all of the Jews that are present in Shushan, and fast ye for me, and neither eat nor drink three days, night or day: I also and my maidens will fast likewise; and so will I go in unto the king, which is not according to the law: and if I perish, I perish.”


After the fast, Esther went into the king. The king put his staff down to show his willingness to listen. Esther touched the end of the staff. To begin her conference with the king. The king expressed his love for Esther and told her he would do anything for her, even give her half of the kingdom. Esther just asked that he protected the Jews from Haman’s decree.


The king was mad that Haman made such a decree, and so the king put Haman to death. The Jews were protected from Haman’s decree. Esther was a hero, because she put her trust in God and protected her people.


Discuss

How can you have the courage to stand up for what is right, no matter how scary and difficult it is? Here are some scenarios, to help your children to prepare to be brave, like Esther and stand up for what is right.


  1. You are at a friend’s house, watching a movie. The movie has a lot of bad language and makes you feel uncomfortable. What could you do?

  2. Your friend shows you some pictures on their phone. The pictures are of girls and boys with little or no clothing. What do you do? (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints has the antipornography lesson that teaches 3 steps when you see pornography. They say to 1-) Name it, say “That’s pornography” 2-) Get away from it 3-) Tell a trusted adult.)

  3. You are hanging out with a group of friends. Some of your friends begin to bully another child, by saying mean things and pushing them. What do you do?

  4. You have been saving for a new toy for a long time. You are at the store with your parents, and you see someone drop a $20 bill. If you keep that money, you can buy your toy. What do you do?

  5. A really hard math test is coming up in school. One of your friends said that they are an aide in the copy center, and they have the answers to the test. They offer to let you memorize the answers with them. What do you do?


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Family Home Evening for Ezra 1; 3-7; Nehemiah; 4-6; 8

 Read

Today’s lesson kinda jumped pretty far ahead in time. You may want to summarize a few events in the gap. Here is a short summary that I used.


Last week, we talked about King Josiah. Josiah led the Israelites in righteousness, and they enjoyed the blessings of the temple and held great passover feasts to remember how the Lord saved their ancestors in Egypt. 


One day, Josiah saw Necho, king of Egypt, leading an army and went to try and battle him. King Necho sent a messenger and said that he was not going to attack them, so to let him go. He said that the Lord had sent him on an errand and not to get in the way, or the Lord would stop Josiah. Josiah didn’t listen and put on a disguise so that he could still attack Necho’s army. During the battle, Josiah was hit with arrows and died.


Josiah’s son, Jehoahaz, became the next king. He was only king for three months, before Necho came back and overthrew him. Then, Necho gave the kingdom to his brother. Necho’s brother, Jehoaikim, was a wicked king. Then, Babylon’s King, Nebuchadnezzer, came and took Jehoakim as a prisoner. So, his son Jehoaichin became the king, after his father was taken. Nebuchadnezzar only allowed Jehoiachin to lead for 3 months, before he came in and made his brother, Zedekiah, the king. Zedikiah did not listen to Jerimiah, the prophet. He turned against all words of God.


Because the people followed the evil ways of their king, they did evil things in the temple. The king of Chaldees came into the land and began to destroy everything and everyone. The Chaldees entered the temple and took a lot of the gold, silver, and other valuable things and took them back to Babylon. They also burned down the temple. Many of the Israelites were taken, as prisoners and servants, back to Babylon.


Then, King Cyrus of Persia was told by God to build a new temple in Jerusalem. He tried to gather righteous people to help him. He went to Babylon and gathered the stuff that Nebuchadnezzer had stolen from the temple. He also allowed the Jews to go back to Jerusalem.


After 7 months, the Jews were able to build up the altar and begin to offer sacrifices to Heavenly Father again. They also began to lay the foundation for a new temple. The Samaritans offered to help the Jews, but then they wrote a letter to the King of Persia, now King Darrius. They told him that the Jews were beginning to build big walls and they were going to become strong again. This scared Darrius and he forced the Jews to stop building.


The prophets, Haggai and Zechariah, then prophesied that they should start building again and God would protect them. So the Jews resumed building. When the governor saw the building, he asked why they started building without permission. After their discussion, the governor sent a letter to King Darrius and asked him to let them start building the temple again, because that is what God wanted. Darrius made a decree that they could finish the temple.


They were finally able to finish the temple, and this is what was written: 


Ezra 6:21-22

21 And the children of Israel, which were come again out of captivity, and all such as had separated themselves unto them from the filthiness of the heathen of the land, to seek the Lord God of Israel, did eat,

22  And kept the feast of unleavened bread seven days with joy: for the Lord had made them joyful, and turned the heart of the king of Assyria unto them, to strengthen their hands in the work of the house of God, the God of Israel.


Discuss

In our time, we have not had our temples destroyed, but in recent years, we have had a pandemic. During the pandemic, we were not able to have access to the temples. All temples were temporarily closed and all temple work ceased to take place. As temples slowly began to open again, and people were allowed to enter the temples, we felt similar joy to the Jews. Talk about how the temple can bring us joy.


Click the picture below to see how we did this lesson and to hear the story of how my brother and his wife found joy in being married and sealed in the temple, after the temples reopened in 2020.